Here's How To Succeed At College Dating
3. Communication Is Key
4. Don't Go Playing The "Blame Game"
We sometimes blame the other person for the problems in the relationship, even if it's not fair. It's simple to blame the other person for ruining the connection by saying things like "You never listen" or "You don't want to hang out with me ever," but this probably won't deliver you the long-term results you want. Instead, attempt to calmly and logically explain how what the other person did made you feel. It's easier said than done, right? Of course it is. When you start playing the "blame game," the most important thing is not to be perfect, but to pay attention to yourself. "When you said you didn't want to go out, it made me feel unimportant." If you can, try to stop yourself, calm down, and say what you mean in a better way. If you're not perfect at this, don't be hard on yourself. It takes time and emotional maturity to get better.